He’s almost 16 now and hasn’t sewn much since that long-ago locker dangler. But he’s still just as resolute, determined, and inspiring to me as ever. (And my sewing is forevermore transformed!) With this intro, please enjoy this old, but still inspiring, favorite post of mine.
As a sixth grader, my son took a mini-course in home economics. For the sewing component, he hand-stitched a simple felt pocket with a button loop to hang in his locker. He completed most of the “locker dangler” at school, but needed to finish the final step – sewing on the button- at home. After rummaging through my button box for a “funky” button, he was ready to get started.
I’m no seamstress, but I’ve sewn on buttons before. I’ve also hand-stitched doll quilts and sewn on my fair share of Boy Scout patches. So, in a knowing “I’ve done this before” tone of voice, I suggested that he double up his thread so it wouldn’t slip off the needle, but not make it too long, lest it get all twisty and knotted. This sometimes happens to me, and it’s a nuisance, requiring that I back up or start that section over.
My son, however, was resolute. “I’m supposed to do this by myself,” he explained. “And I know what to do.” Then, with remarkable skill, he threaded the needle, doubled up his strand and tied a tidy knot. Finally, peering into my sewing kit he asked, “Where’s the beeswax?”
“The what?” I asked.
He looked at me incredulously. “You know, the beeswax.” I didn’t know, but now I do, and I think my days of knotted thread might finally be over! For, as every REAL seamstress knows, a coating of beeswax quickly applied to the thread, not only strengthens and bonds the double strand, it also makes it slippery so the stitches glide knot-free through the fabric.
Sometimes, like thread, my writing feels tight and knotty. The words don’t flow at all. What I could really use is a little beeswax for my pen, or maybe even for my mind, to loosen me up and get those words gliding.
Thankfully, I think I’m a better writer than a seamstress. Here’s my writerly beeswax: I begin each writing session with 5 minutes (or more if I’m having fun) of just playing with words. Somedays I’ll free write something that’s on my mind. Other days I’ll open with quick hand written list of, say, all the words that rhyme with shoe, or all the different ways a penny could get lost. Often that’s all I need to get me going.
How about you? What’s your BEESWAX?